How to make hard decisions

 

I was listening to something this morning in regards to making hard decisions and how do we know if it is the right thing to be doing. These are my take aways from it

The way you make a decision. think about options, the decision that aligns with you that is the right decision is expansive.

-        It creates growth.

-        Exciting, even if it is scary.

If you feel yourself shrinking or a contraction in energy, then it’s a no!

Always use your heart to know what the truth is for you. You brain is used to figure out the analytics of it

-        How will I make it happen?

-        What’s the time frame etc.

 

What you will regret are the things you didn’t do. You will regret not going back to school, you’ll regret if you don’t take your health seriously, you’ll regret not saving for that trip etc. Don’t let your fears hold you back from what you know in your heart you want to do.

 

1.How you feel about someone, or something is very different than how that person makes you feel, Put the weight of your decision in how the person/ place makes you feel.

 

2. you must know the difference between what the right decision is in your heart vs. your fear of making that decision. Always find the courage to make the decision that is in your heart. You will never, ever regret it.

 

 

In other news, I called the clerks office at knox county court and they  stated even though we are restructuring the 50/50 agreement that we could still go into mediation for the 1 week on 1 week off scenario. They also stated that it’s hard to pinpoint the time frame as to how long it takes to get into a hearing for the time you submit paperwork. She did state that if we got in well before the beginning of the school year that we can request to have the start date take place in September.