That was a fast weekend

 I can't believe that this weekend is over already. I feel pretty good tonight despite how busy we were and the amount of stuff that was accomplished. Two college graduations. Friday was my sons mothers graduation, and then yesterday was my best friends wifes graduation. A lot of miles traveled in the last few days. Last night was a good evening however. you came over to hang out with little man and I. Ice cream, tv and some brief hangouts before he went to bed. Once that took place it was time for a tub and then to bed for snuggles. It was nice to cuddle, and feel the warmth and softness of each other. The next morning was a super lazy morning. Breakfast, followed by grocery pickup. Came back to plant some more morning glories for bean, and hung out a bit longer. At this point I had received an email from that ex wife in response to the email about boundaries that I sent her a week ago. I knew she wouldn't be able to read that without responding. I won't be responding as she is looking to hook me into some circular dialog that goes nowhere per usual. Can you imagine being such a snowflake that anytime someone needs to talk to you about a divorce that you caused you are requesting a therapeutic space. sounds more of like a control tactic to me.  However, based on some of her bullet points that she thinks she knows, I had a conversation with my son afterwards to find out if the things he told me about being happy she was around again, and missing her boys was really something that he felt or if he was saying it because he thought it would make daddy happy. He said that he said it because he felt that way. I also asked him if he felt safe around her and safe at home and he said that he did. rest of the day was pretty mellow. we watched fox and the hound and I took a dad nap on the couch, we ate supper and the next thing I knew it was time to bring little man back to his moms.